PLANNING TO GET MARRIED? - Melissa Allen Mood Essentials

Planning To Get Married? ……We Show You How To Keep It Together While Walking Down The Aisle. 

It’s important for brides and grooms to emotionally prepare for their walk down the aisle, because even the calmest people experience a host of emotions which can catch them off guard. 

To help avoid any wedding day surprises, we have listed down 5 emotions every bride and groom  can feel on their wedding day and tips as well as highlighting how our Mood Essentials™ can help you keep it together while walking down the aisle.

Doubt or Pre-Wedding Jitters
Many couples find themselves second guessing every decision from flower arrangements, menus or just asking yourself if you are ready to be married.  This is completely normal, so take a deep breath and realise you are experiencing a manifestation of pre-wedding jitters and stress. 

It’s no secret weddings can be high-stress situations are notorious for causing anxiety or worry to surface.  After all, there is a lot of pressure for everything to be just right.  Each couple faces stress, whether it is a family dramas or finances.

Even at a time to celebrate love, you might experience anger. These feelings catch many couples off guard.  Far too often, whether they are family or friendships, relationships strain under the pressure of a wedding.  It’s not uncommon to see disagreement, arguments, hurt feelings, resentment and broken promises erupt on the days leading up to the wedding or even right before you walk down the aisle.

In addition to feeling some strong emotions, your wedding day may feel surreal and leave you feeling like you are in a different reality. 

Suddenly we are surrounded by friends, family co-workers and acquaintances as we are decked out in a beautiful wedding gown or tuxedo.  We will be the centre of attention, often being pulled in a variety of directions to talk with all our guests and take photos while handling the details of the wedding.  There is a good chance that we won’t get a chance to rest or even finish eating at your reception.  Throughout the day, we will probably be amazed at all the support and love received from our family and friends.


Finally, one emotion you will experience is love.  There are many types of love, ranging from parental affection to romance.  Saying our vows makes us examine our relationships old and new.  Brides and grooms need to be prepared for strong surges of love throughout the day, especially when at times like when the groom first sees his bride, or during emotional toasts.

How To Keep It Together While Walking Down the Aisle

Our wedding days will be emotional and it does make sense – we are making life changing decision in front of all the people we cherish the most. To help keep it together while walking down the aisle we have listed the following tips:

Think happy thoughts:It sounds cliché, but staying positive will ward off any tears, anger, or fear.  Remember when you said “yes” and think ahead to the celebration waiting for you. 

Spritz some of our I Have Joy Mood Essentials™ – this uplifting 100% natural fragrance bring a sense of happiness and delight into your day by a cheerful blend of 20 natural essential oils including grapefruit, orange, howood, and bergamot that smell great and also has the added benefits of help you feel great.

I Have Confidence Mood Essentials™ also help you to stand tall and walk proud by containing 21 natural essential oils that include grapefruit, rosewood, mandarin & bergamot.  Blended together these oils boost self esteem, mental strength & clarity creating a positive mindset as offering a great fragrance to wear as a perfume or cologne. 

Relax:  If you are overwhelmed or anxious, look for 5 things you can see, 4 things you can touch, 3 things you hear, 2 things you can smell and 1 thing you taste.

Use our I Have Calm Mood Essential™ which has been specifically blended to help de-stress and soothe the mind and body all while offering a great fragrance to wear as a perfume or cologne.

Plan for some time alone:Every bride and groom need a few minutes alone to help calm down and prepare for what’s to come so they enjoy the moment.  Couple this our I Have Calm Mood Essentials™ to help you remain calm

Get enough sleep: We probably won’t be getting a lot of sleep right before our wedding, but getting adequate amounts of shut eye can make a big difference in how we handle our emotions and feelings.  Our I Have Calm Mood Essentials™ is also a multi-purpose natural fragrance to help you enjoy a good night’s sleep, leaving you feeling revitalised for the day ahead! 

Don’t forget to eat: It is much easier to stay on top of our emotions if we aren’t starving.  Take time to eat during the day, even if it is just a simple snack

Remember the big picture: It’s inevitable that something will not go according to plan.  Whether it is something small or big, just keep looking forward to the final outcome.  Chances, are you will be able to solve the problem or it won’t matter in the long run.

Our I Have Focus Mood Essential™ is a natural fragrance that not only smells great but gives assistance in becoming more effective to achieve your goals, with an intelligent combination 8 natural essential oils including rosewood, rosemary, frankincense and lemon.

So whether you are wanting to calm the nerves, focus on getting tasks done, a boost of confidence or putting that bounce in your step our Mood Essentials™ are here to help! 

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